Why do men hump their partners? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus
Please tell me why my husband likes to come up to me, often in front of people, and hump me or grope me, often while making gross noises. Just thinking about it makes me never want to have sex with him again. I’ve repeatedly told him I hate this, but he is undeterred.
He claims that he’s showing interest, and I should be glad he still finds me attractive—but then, often in the same breath, he’ll say it’s a joke and I’m humorless.
I find it humiliating and off-putting, and he is of course ignoring the many reasons (bad hygiene, bad treatment, exploiting me) that I don’t want to have sex with him.
Why is this happening, and what can I do?
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Filiberto Hargett
Update: 2024-12-02